If you love getting dirty while you’re getting clean, shower sex is perfect for you. The shower is a wonderful place to get it on with your partner or partners and change up your sex life. As the spray of water gets your skin sleek and slippery, you can touch each other and enjoy new sensual pleasures. Plus, you don’t have to worry about changing the sheets when you’re done; just rinse off and you’re all set! Having sex in the shower is a fun way to enjoy a change of pace and truly get wet in every sense of the word.
There are many different ways to enjoy sex in the shower and spice up your sex life in the process.
What is shower sex?
Shower sex is just what it sounds like: Having sex in the shower. That can entail intercourse, oral sex, anal sex, playing with sex toys, or masturbation. You can enjoy shower sex without any accouterments, or add items like a shower bench or waterproof vibrators for more variety.
Why do people like shower sex?
You can enjoy shower sex at any time of the day or night. It’s a wonderful place to escape if you have roommates or guests for a little privacy. The spray of the shower will cover up any loud noises you make. If you often feel tired at the end of the day, suggesting some morning shower sex is a great way to initiate sex with your partner.
How to have shower sex
Shower sex is easy, but there are a few things you should know before trying it out. One is that you’ll want to make sure your shower floor isn’t too slippery. You can place foot grips or a shower nonslip mat on the floor of your shower to prevent slipping. If you’re going to bring sex toys into the shower, you want to make sure they’re waterproof and that you dry them thoroughly when you’re done. If you’re planning to have anal sex or think you may want some extra slickness, bring some silicone-based lube into the shower. You don’t want to use water-based lube because it will simply wash away.
Using condoms during shower sex
Be especially careful about using condoms during shower sex to ensure they stay on. Put the condom on before you get into the shower, and make sure it fits correctly. This is especially important with shower sex because the water may make the condom more prone to slippage. If you sense that the condom isn’t staying in place, you may want to adjust the shower spray so it’s not landing directly on the condom. You may want to use a little lubricant along with the condom to reduce friction and ensure the condom doesn’t tear.
Best shower sex positions
You can have an incredibly hot time in the shower when you get it on in these sex positions. Again, make sure you have a floor mat or grips so that you can stay in place.
Standing Up — This is one of the most natural sex positions for the shower. You can each stand with your feet on the ground, with one of you behind the other. The receiving partner can balance against the wall or find a spot to hold on to, depending on the design of your shower. Make sure you have enough wall space to lean against and that the floor isn’t slippery. This standing shower sex position works for anal or vaginal penetration (remember to add some silicone lube if you’re having anal sex).
Bent Over — One person stands in front of the other and bends over, leaving themselves open to penetration from behind. The receiving partner can either be plating their hands on the ground or on their ankles, or holding onto the tub edge or the faucet. Make sure you’re sturdy so that when you start having sex, you don’t slip. Stand wherever feels most comfortable with the shower streaming down on you. This position also works for either anal or vaginal penetration.
Sitting — If you have room, get a shower bench so you can expand your repertoire of shower sex positions. One of you can sit on it while the other sits down for powerful penetration. Face toward them for cowgirl-style sex and away from them for reverse cowgirl. You can remove the shower bench when you’re done or keep it in the shower.
On the Floor — If you want to be totally comfortable, get on the floor! You can experiment with various sex positions on the floor of your shower, such as one of you spooning the other, missionary position or reverse cowgirl. One person can lay on their back, wrap their hands around the edge of the tub, spread their legs and enjoy being penetrated by their partner. If you’re into doggy-style sex, the floor of the shower can also be a great place for this popular sex position. Adjust the nozzle of your shower head so it’s landing in a comfortable way, or bring the shower head down close to you for a more targeted focus.
Showerhead Stimulation — If you have a detachable showerhead, bring it down, adjust the spray and temperature, and use that showerhead directly on your most sensitive body parts. Some people may prefer a harder or lighter stream of water. Experiment and see what works best for you. You can also use your shower head with any of the above positions for additional stimulation.
Best waterproof sex toys for shower sex
There are many sex toys that you can bring into the shower when you want to mix it up. From waterproof vibrators and suction-cup dildos to butt plugs and strokers, there are many types of sex toys that you can use to help make your shower sex even hotter.
Oona Flirt 8-Function Rechargeable Waterproof Massager
This powerful intimate massager is the perfect way to get strong clitoral sensation in the bath or shower. Choose from eight different functions so you always get the pleasure you desire.
Oona Smirk Rechargeable Waterproof Tongue Vibrator
Oral sex in the shower? Yes, please! Whether you want to give your partner’s tongue a break or you’re enjoying some solo shower time, the Oona Smirk Tongue Vibrator is the perfect way to get licked and slick.
Extreme Passion 2.0 8-Function Waterproof Rabbit Vibrator
Get the best of both worlds with this ten-inch rabbit vibrator! You’ll love the feel of its powerful clitoral stimulation along with deep penetration as part of your shower sex fun.
Cherry Bomb 10 Speed Waterproof Bullet Vibrator
This small but mighty vibrator lets you get straight to the point! Choose from its ten different speeds and let its vibrations send you right over the edge. If you’re a frequent traveler, the Cherry Bomb is the perfect pick-me-up to use in your hotel room shower.
Clearly Hung Suction Cup 8 Inch Dildo
Get filled and fulfilled when you use the suction-cup base of this clear, eight-inch dildo. Attach it to the wall of your shower and get ready to enjoy every inch of this incredible waterproof toy.
King Cock Suction Cup 6 Inch Dildo
If you prefer a slightly smaller, lifelike sex toy, you can’t go wrong with this six-inch realistic dildo. Suction it to the wall, hold it in your hand, or give it to your partner to use on you. Either way, you’ll love how it feels just like the real thing.
Sucky Ducky Multi-Function Waterproof Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
Enjoy focused attention right on your most sensitive body part with this powerful Sucky Ducky clitoral stimulator! Whether you’re alone or with a partner, this waterproof toy is the perfect way to steam up your shower time.
Use this shower mount to enjoy your favorite Fleshlight stroker right in the privacy of your shower. Each stroke will feel incredible and cleanup is totally simple.
Slick N’ Slide Waterproof Shower Stroker
This men’s stroker can be used in the shower for the ultimate tight grip! Savor every powerful stroke as you get wet and wild. For even more stimulation, check out the vibrating version of this popular stroker.
This sleek glass butt plug from our Oona line is perfect for use in the shower. Just lube it up and enjoy the sensation of thrilling fullness.
Now you know all about the joys of shower sex! Want to learn more about using adult toys to bring you pleasure? Check out our complete guide to sex toys. Curious about what to do with your adult items? Read our blog post on how to use sex toys. You can shop Spencer’s for a wide range of sex toys, including waterproof vibrators and dildos, as well as silicone lubricant to make your next sex in the shower (or anywhere else) even more thrilling.
