Stay sexy all year long with this sex holiday calendar. We’ve compiled a list of every steamy date to remember this year so you and your partner will always have a reason to celebrate each other. Read this list, mark your calendar, and get ready to amplify your sex life.
January
January 6| National Cuddle Up Day
January is the coldest time of the year and what better way to warm up than with cuddles?
January 13| Shower Together Day
National Shower Together Day started innocently as a marketing strategy by New Wave Enviro! This company is known for making high-quality filtration systems and was attempting to promote buying new filters for the shower. Now it serves as a day to stay clean while you get dirty!
Third Friday in January| International Fetish Day
International Fetish Day (IFD) started as a battle against censorship in response to the United Kingdom’s “extreme pornography” laws. Because there’s still a huge degree of stigma around the fetish community, activists will often use IFD to speak out in support of the BDSM community.
February
Body Awareness Month
February 7| Work Naked Day
This day was created to allow those who work in office settings to work from home in leisurewear. Interpret this as you will, though.
February 14-21| National Condom Week
Use this week to learn more about the importance of condoms, or experiment with a new brand or type! There are many varieties of condoms which mean there is something for everyone as the most used form of contraception.
February 14| Valentine’s Day
March
March 3| National Threesome Day
March 5| National Restock Your Lube Day
Time to check your lube levels and restock! Lube is an essential part of any relationship; use this day as an excuse to experiment with a new type, or flavor. Take a look at our wide variety of lubes and lotions to take a chance on something new. To learn more about how lube can improve your sex life, read How to Use Lube to Make Sex Even Better.
March 14| Steak and Blowjob Day
April
National Couple Appreciation Month
National Couple Appreciation Month was founded to encourage couples to do something to re-enforce and celebrate their relationship. This month is dedicated to letting your partner know they are respected, appreciated, and desired.
April 14| Cunnilingus and Cake Day
April 16| National Horny Day
April 18| Anal Sex Day
Looking to experiment? Use this day as an excuse to try something new! If you want more information on what anal toys might be right for you, check out this blog on how to use a butt plug.
April 24| Lingerie Day
National Lingerie Day was established to celebrate and enjoy the confidence that comes from wearing a pretty pair of undergarments! Celebrate in sexy, new lingerie to commemorate the day.
May
International Masturbation Month
This month started as a day to honor U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders, who was fired by President Bill Clinton for suggesting that masturbation be part of the sex education curriculum. International Masturbation Month is an annual occurrence that is held to protect and celebrate the right to masturbate.
May 5| Make Out Day
May 8| Outdoor Intercourse Day
May 14-20| Online Romance Week
We live in a world where starting a relationship online is not an uncommon practice, and long distance can be hard, so celebrate your partner on every platform!
June
June 2| International Sex Workers’ Day
The recognition of sex workers on this day began with a protest. On June 2, 1975, sex workers began a weeklong occupation at the Saint-Nizier Church in France where they demanded the ends of fines, stigma, and police harassment within the sex worker community. This occupation also included the release of ten sex workers who were imprisoned for soliciting and to call attention to the increased violence against sex workers by the French government.
June 9| National 69 Day
June 12| National Eat Ass Day
June 20| National Public Display of Affection (PDA) Day
June 21| World Kamasutra Day
June 22| National No Panty Day
July
July 6| World Kissing Day
July 14| National Nudity Day
National Nudity Day first was recognized in 1976 but was rarely celebrated outside of nudist inner circles, but this could be the year to change that. Strip down to your birthday suit and learn more about some of the benefits of being naked.
July 21| Handjob Day
July 24| World BDSM Day
In the world of BDSM, the notion of servitude is a huge part of the culture. To enforce this, July 24th is the preferred day of those who are part of the BDSM community. If BDSM is something you’d enjoy, you can learn more about it in the beginner’s guide to bondage!
July 31| National Orgasm Day
National Orgasm Day was first celebrated in 2007 by Councilman Arimateio Dantas of Espertina, Brazil as a way to raise awareness for female sexuality and to begin to remove the stigma surrounding sexuality. Establishing this holiday also served as a repayment for “sexual debt” Dantas had with his wife.
August
Romance Awareness Month
With summer coming to an end, and the holidays beginning to rear their heads it’s easy to put your parent to the side. Not in August, though! Romance Awareness Month is a time to intentionally reflect on your partnership, your partner, and how you support one another.
August 5| National Underwear Day
August 13| International Swingers Day
August 23| Go Topless Day
September
Pleasure Your Mate Month
September 4| World Sexual Health Day
September 26| Love Note Day
The love letter was a skill that was taught and perfected until the start of the 18th century. In the age of the internet, we tend to bare our hearts less, but that doesn’t have to be the case! Channel your inner Victorian lover and send your partner a heartfelt letter that they will cherish.
October
October 1| Massage Day
October 6| National Kink Day
There are endless places and spaces to spice up your sex life, and National Kink Day encourages you to go for it There is a kink out there for everyone, and experimenting is completely normal. Asking your partner to experiment in the bedroom can be intimidating, so take this day to do just that!
October 13| National No Bra Day
October 17| National Ass Day
October 21| International Fisting Day
November
November 4| National Sex Toy Day
Sex toys are game changer when it comes to spicing things up and discovering new ways to be stimulated! National Sex Toy day serves as a way to recognize the benefits of sex toys and their widespread use. Experience the joys of sex toys as a fun, safe, and affordable means of bettering your sex life.
November 28| Spanksgiving
November is a time of being grateful, but that doesn’t have to stop on Thanksgiving. Take this day to show your partner just how thankful you are!