Cock rings are sex toys worn around the penis to help maintain an erection. This is helpful for those dealing with erectile dysfunction (ED) or premature ejaculation, as well as anyone with a penis who simply wants to last longer in bed.
How cock rings work is by restricting blood flow from the penis due to the pressure from the cock ring. By keeping the blood within the penis, the cock ring helps keep your erection hard. Using a cock ring can take some getting used to, so we’ve compiled tips to help you get started.
Select the right cock ring
There are different materials and styles of cock rings. Generally, they are made from stretchy material that can be easily placed around the base of your penis to ensure blood stays in the shaft to help you maintain your erection. Some cock rings are adjustable so you can get a tighter fit if desired, but cock rings are made to fit all sizes and girths.
There are various types of cock rings, from basic ones made of silicone and color-changing cock rings to vibrating cock rings (more on that below) that are good for use with a partner. If you’re just starting out, a simple stretchy cock ring is an excellent way to get used to the sensation.
Always use lube with a cock ring
While cock rings can accommodate any penis size, using a little lubricant with your cock ring will help it go on easier. Lube will also reduce friction and make wearing a cock ring feel better for the duration of use. You just need to rub a few drops of the lube along the inside of the cock ring before putting it on.
Make sure the lubricant you select is compatible with your cock ring. Water-based lube is the most versatile and will work with any cock ring. You can learn more about the different types of lube here.
How to put on a cock ring
It’s important to put on the cock ring when you are semi-erect, not totally flaccid. This will prevent discomfort and allow the cock ring to do its job.
Place the cock ring around the base of your shaft or in your preferred location. According to Kinkly, “Cock rings are generally fitted around the base of the penis but can be fitted under the head or in the middle.” You may want to experiment and see which type of placement feels best.
Some cock rings are stretchy enough that you can place the cock ring around your testicles as an alternative as well. You can experiment and see whether you prefer a ring around your shaft or around the shaft and balls. If you’re looking to use a cock ring to improve your sexual stamina, try using it for a shorter period of time, such as five or ten minutes, on your own, then build up to the maximum time period. See how it feels and what sensations you enjoy while the cock ring is in place and afterward when you climax. You can also experiment and see whether your orgasms feel more intense, which many cock ring users have found.
If your cock ring feels too tight or uncomfortable, remove it immediately. It should feel snug but not too tight.
What to do when you have a cock ring on
Once the cock ring is on, you’re free to enjoy any and all forms of sexual stimulation, including manual stimulation, receiving oral sex, or anal or vaginal intercourse. Depending on your preference, you can have an orgasm with the cock ring on, or remove it and then climax. If you do have an orgasm while wearing your cock ring, it may feel more intense than usual.
Only wear your cock ring for a limited amount of time
Always follow the instructions on your cock ring regarding the amount of time you should wear it. Never exceed the recommended time. According to WebMD, you should wear a cock ring for a maximum of 20 minutes. The time limit is there to protect your sexual health and ensure optimum use. If you want to use it later, after 60 minutes have passed, you can. This is the most important rule to follow when using a cock ring.
How to use a vibrating cock ring
The above instructions also apply to a vibrating cock ring. The difference is that the cock ring will usually have an added vibrating part designed to stimulate your partner. You can use a vibrating cock ring in your preferred sexual position, making sure you and your partner can feel the vibrations. You will likely need some trial and error when using a vibrating cock ring to find the positions that work best for you and your partner for maximum pleasure.
How to use a cock ring with a penis pump
If you are looking for a temporary boost to your penis length and girth, a penis pump may be right for you. To maintain your newly enlarged penis, you can then use a cock ring for the recommended time period. Always follow the instructions on your penis pump.
How to use a cock ring with a condom
If you’re using condoms and want to also wear a cock ring, they can be easily combined. Put on the condom first, then position the cock ring at the base. According to Healthline, you’ll need to ensure that the cock ring doesn’t stick to the condom, which could cause it to tear. Once the condom and cock ring are in place, you can resume your preferred sexual activity.
How to remove a cock ring
Removing a cock ring is easy; just stretch the material and then slide it off. If you’ve used the cock ring around your testicles, remove those from it first. If you’ve already orgasmed and your penis is flaccid, the cock ring will be very easy to remove and shouldn’t require stretching.
How to clean and store your cock ring
As with all sex toys, cleaning and storage are important to ensure the longevity of your cock ring. You can clean your cock ring with an antibacterial toy cleaner or soap and warm water. Make sure it’s thoroughly dry before storing your cock ring in a cool, dry place away from sunlight. For cleaning a vibrating cock ring, make sure not to fully submerge the part that vibrates in water, but instead thoroughly wipe it clean. If your vibrating cock ring has a battery, make sure you remove it after use. If the toy turns on accidentally, that could drain the battery.
Some general cock ring usage tips: According to WebMD, you shouldn’t use a cock ring when you’ve been drinking alcohol or using drugs as this may cause the potential for injury. If you’re experiencing erectile dysfunction, you may want to speak to your doctor about forms of treatment.
There you go! Our best tips on how to use a cock ring! You’ll find a wide selection of cock rings as well as other men’s sex toys right here at Spencer’s. Want to learn more about the wide world of sex toys? See our complete sex toy guide and our detailed instructions on how to use sex toys.
